Hi

Thanks for clicking on my ad and hopefully you will read to the end before hitting the back button. How am I going to be too honest? Well here we go.

All through my 20s and into my early 30s I suffered from OCD. If you do not know what this is then there are plenty of websites but I suspect most people will have some idea even if they are ignorant of the true facts. Due to my own embarrassment and the stigma any illness like this has I ignored it till it effected my work and life in general. It was only at this stage that I decided to get help and tackle the problem I had tried to ignore. To try and cut a long story short I am now over this illness. It has taken a while but now I am trying to get on with my life and make up for the years I feel I have lost when the OCD ruled everything I did. Why am I writing all this down? It does seem a little strange and anybody I met now would never realise there had been a problem unless I chose to tell them but that to me does not seem the right thing to do. Best to be totally honest and at least I can never be accused of hiding things later.

If anyone is still reading then it might be a good idea to tell you a little about myself and the sort of person I am. Well mid 30s, tall and average build with blue/green eyes and shortish light brown hair. Highly descriptive I am sure you will agree. I am a very honest person as I think the above will show and also Kind, Polite, Thoughtful and have a great sense of humour if a little dry at times. I really enjoy a chat and have been told by many people I am a good listener who can understand what they are trying to say almost before they have said it. I always treat people with respect and tend to put the needs of others before my own. I enjoy the odd glass of something but you will never find me drunk and making an idiot of myself. I have an awful lot of interests such as photography, films, reading, history and nature in general and like so many others I can be very active at times while another day I will be happy to collapse on the sofa watching TV/DVD.

I believe I have a lot to give to the right person but unfortunately many people make assumptions when you are honest right at the start and base their beliefs on ignorance and not fact. Perhaps I am too honest and should let someone get to know me before telling them of the problems I have overcame in the past but it simply does not seem to be the right thing to do. This may well mean I get few if any responses to my ad but I guess I shall have to wait and see.

Thanks for reading the advert and if you would like to email me please hit the reply button or use the following link ..... tigermoth1@rock.com.

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